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Thanks for taking the time to take a look at my post.
Slim, attractive, intelligent, humorous, single, gentleman,
nonsmoker, ddf, nearing 60.
Seeks creative, intelligent, imaginative woman, also
ddf, preferably nonsmoker,
for a long term relationship.

I'm not an outdoorsy guy, but I do like
walks, possibly hikes, gardening, bio-park, etc.
I like to dine out. I like classic films,
classic blues and rock and some jazz.

This post may turn out kind of long.
I hope you will find it interesting and after reading,
perhaps you'll give it serious consideration.

Of course, what you see here are my ideas only.
Your ideas, input, needs and desires and imagination
are equally important. Communication will be vital.

Any idea what OTK stands for? It may mean
other things but as I use it here, it stands for
Over The Knee (or knees).
I would like, very much, to frequently go over your knees
for a sound spanking.
Would you like a spanking also? If so please speak up,
if not, that is totally fine. I won't mention it again.

Variety is vital for interest and excitement, don't you think so?
OTK or the basic over the knee position is great but there are
multitudes of variations and other positions.
And the idea is not for you to have a sore hand.
After a while (assuming that you are right handed) you could try
spanking with your left hand. It would take some practice,
but I bet you would get really good at it.
The bare hand is superb, but there are lots and lots of
fun implements such as paddles, straps etc that you would use also.

If you have experience, GREAT! but if not, don't worry.
You'll learn fast, enthusiasm is all that's needed.

I'm thinking about twice a week, on average.
I'd hope that you would want to and would spank me that often, or MORE.
There is no schedule. You determine when.
Just be enthusiastic.

By hand, for about 15 minutes is about right to start out.
If you are shy about spanking my bare bottom,
we can start with spanking thru trousers, then drop the trousers,
eventually the briefs would also come down.

I hope that you will like my bottom and will really enjoy spanking.
As the spankings get longer it gets more and more important
to be spanking exclusively on the bare. That way you can observe
the effects that your attentions are having.

During a session, its fine to frequently make adjustments to my position.
Don't hesitate to tell me to move this way or that,
or to push my bottom out more and no clenching!
This is so that you are comfortable and my bottom is
just right so that you can really enjoy yourself.
Its also a part of your maintaining control.
You are in control.
Your enjoyment is extremely important.

You can have on as much or as little clothing as you want.
You can dress for the part, but you certainly don't have to.
As long as the room is warm enough, nude is fine with me.
But that's up to you.

Let your mood be your guide.
Sometimes you'll probably feel like being stern and serious, sometimes playful,
sometimes sensual, sometimes erotic.
Intimacy is under your control. I will not push you for sex.
You say when you want to and not before.

If I've done something, or failed to do something, or displeased you,
you can lecture me, about it, before hand, during corner time, and between spanks.
I would not intentionally be bad, to try to induce you to spank me, but nobody's
perfect.

As my bottom gets more accustomed, we'll extend the total length of
time. One method is to break it into 15 minute, sections or sessions,
between which you can send me to the corner
for rest and contemplation of what's to come.
This also gives the opportunity to change positions.
We gradually work up to three or four, or possibly even five
sessions total, for one spanking.

Its your decision when to spank.
Just say the word, as simple as: I will spank you now,
or any way you want to phrase it. Spontaneity is exciting.
Advance notice is exciting too.
For instance, if we are out, you can tell me,
I'll spank you as soon as we get back.
It gives time for the anticipation to build.
If, on occasion, a second spanking is required later in the same day,
that second one could be more brief, but that is up to you.

Of course we have other things to do besides spanking!
Is there a spanking every time we get together? Of course not!

If you're in the mood but my bottom is looking too sore,
other areas such as thighs can be spanked
and there are other forms of discipline
that can be enjoyed on those occasions and also for variety!

I have two short books that tell a lot about positions,
sessions, alternate discipline methods, where to spank, where not
to spank, sensual spankings, erotic spankings, etc.
You will want to read these books, I am sure.
And they would give us a good basis for discussion
and communication. Its not always easy to talk about these things.
In no time, you will be an expert.

Your creativity, imagination and enthusiasm are key.
Communication is really important
but you would lose control if you were to ask, what do you want me to do now?
Just use your instincts. As time goes on you'll
have a store of great ideas and you'll get impromptu ones too.
If you draw a blank, spank! Its that simple.

We'll have things we want to try. Some will work out great,
some might not.
Afterward we communicate.

As I said, I'm nearly 60. I'm seeking a woman in
my age range, in her 50's or 60's. If you're younger
or older and sincerely interested, talk to me.

Since you've read this far, you may be intrigued at the least,
possibly even interested.
The bottom line, so to speak, is, what I'm seeking
is safe, sane, different, exciting, and its loving.

I truly believe that it could work.
And we would have a unique and extremely close,
intimate loving relationship. We'd have the
rest of our lives to enjoy, even as we get older.
And we'd always have something to do.


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